NOTE: since originally writing this I am in a long -term relationship. But doesn't change my vote- Blow Jobs on a regular basis, without being asked!!! Ladies, come on if there's anything about the opposite sex you should have figured out by now it's how great oral sex is for both partners and the overall wellbeing of your relationship. If you don’t believe me, just try it for 1 week (yes, 7 days) give him a good bj at least 5 out of 7 days and tell me everything isn't already improving.
Note- It's not just about giving head, you should enjoy giving head too. 😉
So I'm not sure why this popped into my head earlier but knowing me who knows lol. Thinking back to a convo between a friend and mine he told about that happened at his job. So him and a few work buddies were just shooting the shit when one of the guys mentioned, "anniversary this week, maybe I'll get my yearly BJ?!" Hearing this made me ofc interrupt my friend mid sentence, "Once a year BJ?!" Listen I know that this exists, I've seen it more in movies/tv, and assumed older people don't be sucking dick like that, everyone's different.
As I'm sure I've mentioned somewhere previously, I've been in only 2 relationships- my last, which was the longest (12yrs) I would blow him regularly, more often than not without him having to ask, not to mention I did this happily. (NOTE: B We have not, nor are we together- but istg I legit asked him about this before i started rough drafting my notes for this- he confirmed that was indeed the case!) Another thing I've previously touched on was my as i call it "old-fashioned' type views on certain aspects of relationships and/or my role as a woman (IN NO WAY DOES THIS HAVE ANYTHING TO W/GENDER, 'TRADITIONAL ROLES, ETC) I just feel there are certain things, no not just chores, laundry/ironing, home cooked meals, etc- but i mean his sexual needs. In some ways being ig subservient- except I work I will not stop working unless there is some circumstance outta my control.
So ofc the way my ADHD brain goes- got me thinking of this as some sort of "BJ research plan" A couple Q's popped in my head; 1)What is the average # of BJs a man gets (may have to look for at men in relationships, married, etc) 2)How many women actually regularly and happily give their men head? 3)Est # of people (couples, others) where the "special occasion bj" is actually a thing? EX: couple who have been together for say 4yrs, ask- "In the first year of your relationship, how often did you get head?" "In this past year how often did you get head?"
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